There is a TOE that applies to me when I speak to her. I would re-call it TOEW (theory of everything wrong), which in fact is a theory of everything (or mostly everything) right. Sometimes as we go through life, we keep the same level of maturity in our connection to certain people that we had when we met them, even if years have gone by and we have grown out of our former age and interests at the time. Therefore, the same schemes are repeated, the same debates and endless discussions take place, to no avail, because nobody is ready to admit defeat, as we had never admitted defeat earlier in our period of human exchange. It's funny, as it would seem that we are not only one age related to how old we are, but we are different ages depending on who we are dealing with.